How to Sexually Attract Women

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There’s a big difference between meeting a woman and having a normal conversation and meeting a woman and sexually attracting her. In order to create sexual attraction, you need to be able to push the biological buttons that create that sense of male-female tension.

Believe it or not, creating sexual attraction in women is a skill that can be learned. Yes, it’s true that some men are born with it. Many learn it by accident, through having good experiences in high school or college.

However, even if you didn’t learn these skills at a young age, you can learn them now. Here are the most important things you need to know about how to sexually attract women.

Cultivate a Strong First Impression

You have two chances to make a first impression with a woman: When she first notices you and when you start a conversation.

You can’t control when a woman notices you. However, you can control what she sees when she notices you. When a woman sees you, she’ll either put you in the “yes” category, the “no” category or the “maybe” category.

How can you increase the chances of getting in the “Yes” or “Maybe” categories?

Start by cultivating a powerful presence. This means working on your body language and your identity. All this needs to happen before you actually meet a woman.

Practice holding your body in a more confident manner. Learn to take up more space. Dress in a manner that conveys style, as well as a sense of who you are. When you walk into a room, smile and make eye contact with people. Don’t be afraid to be seen.

Work on your own life. If you cultivate a life you love, if you create a life where you’re really the leader of other people, if you’re really pursuing your passions, that too will emanate from your body.

You never know when a woman might be looking at you. So be “on” at all times.

How to Sexually Attract Women in Conversation

The second part of the sexual attraction equation is how you flirt with women.

Flirting is the mixture of teasing a woman while simultaneously assuring her that you like her. You can do this verbally or nonverbally. For example, you can lightly tease her while smiling and touching her lightly on her arm. The teasing is flirtatious, while the touch lets her know you’re not being serious. (And touch creates attraction.)

In the initial interaction, try to keep her guessing. Don’t let her know you like her right away. Instead, give her the sense that you like her – Then back off a little. Give her enough interest that she’s interested, but not enough that she feels like she has you in the bag.

Present a challenge. Build up your perceived value by dropping clues about the great things you have going on in your life. Your sense of adventure, the job you love, whatever it is that will give someone the sense that they want to be around you.

Move things forward. Teasing a woman and keeping her curious works for the initial interaction, but at some point you’re going to have to move things forward. If you never ask for her phone number, never go for the kiss or never physically escalate, she’ll assume you’re either not interested or you don’t have the guts to go for it – And in either case, she’ll lose interest.

Sexually attracting a woman involves building up your sense of presence before you ever meet a woman. It also involves learning how to tease women and keep them in suspense. Finally, you need to learn to step up to the plate and close the deal – Whether that’s a phone number, a kiss or a cab ride home.