Tired of having “friendly conversations” with women that don’t lead the dating, relationships or sex? If so, you need to learn how to turn women on and have conversations that lead to being lovers rather than just friends. This doesn’t just happen by accident – There are specific personality traits and skills you can develop that help create sexual interest.
Here are a few of the most important things to learn on how to turn on women.
Get Comfortable Talking About Sex
Get comfortable talking about sex. Be willing to talk about what it’s like to be in bed with a woman, about specific sexual techniques, or about taboo subjects in general.
There’s a lot of social pressure against talking about sex. If you’re comfortable with talking about sex, this shows women that you’re not afraid to break out of convention. It also shows women that you’re sexually comfortable, which is very attractive in and of itself.
Don’t be lewd. Don’t try to bring it up unnaturally. Again, the key is just to be casually comfortable with the subject.
Combine Fun with Sexuality
Women love to be around guys who are fun. However, they don’t want to be around men who’re just comedic without sexuality. That’s a quick shortcut to the friend zone.
On the other hand, women also don’t want to be around men who are just all about sex. This is both a little creepy as well as empty.
Instead, women want to be around guys who are fun, who make them laugh, who they also see as sexual.
The best way to learn to express humor is to learn how to say the first thing that comes to your mind without filter. If you get in the habit of doing this, your natural humor will start to flow.
Learn to Touch Naturally
Sex is a physical act. You can’t have sex without touching a woman. However, sex is also a progression – You can’t just go from not touching someone at all to having sex.
Instead, touch usually starts with something innocent, like a touch on the arm. Then it moves to something slightly more sexual, like a touch on the back or the leg. Then it progresses even more, perhaps with an arm around the shoulder or holding hands. Then a makeout, and so on.
If you want to turn women on and create more sexuality in your conversations, you need to start opening the physical conversation with women.
Get in the habit of touching women, even if it’s just innocent and passing touches in the beginning.
Be the Catch
Men often treat women as if they were a prize they need to win over. Instead, you should frame the interaction the other way around.
Women are highly conscious of social value, or “who’s cooler than who.” In any social interaction, you should act as if she’s trying to win your approval rather than the other way around.
If you can portray this frame of mind well, women will be all over you.
Create Experiences for Her
Women want men to lead. One great way to do this is to create experiences for her. Come up with ideas of things you’d like to do, then bring her along.
This could be as simple as “hey, let’s go get a drink” or “hey, let’s go to the dance floor.” If you’re on a date, it could mean leading her around a venue or deciding to do something spontaneous. If you’ve been dating for a while, it could mean surprising her with an unusual experience.
Create fun and different experiences for the women in your life. The more adventurous, the better.
Finally, keep in mind that meeting women is a numbers game. Some women won’t be turned on by you no matter what you do. Others will be all over you within a few minutes of meeting you. Learning how to turn on women will help increase the chances of the latter happening.
January 4, 2012
Sexual Attraction and Turning on Women